..Lately I have been going around accusing people of being two faced…and maintaining double standards etc….
but then…I realized…all this complaining I do…is more about me than anyone else….I guess people said it right…when we like a person….we like them for the qualities that are missing in us….maybe the same works when u crib about someone’s behavior….u see them do the same shit like u…and vent it out by pointing fingers at them…..humans are born hypocrites…..there’s no doubt about that….
..but maybe this is just a technique……to hide the real we…..like someone recently stated….”it’s not the way it looks…”…then why do we people put in all that effort to portray such a distorted version of our true self….???….are we scared that people will find the real us …weird….corny…mushy…or plain dumb?
or is it that we don’t feel comfortable being ourselves, with everyone…and keep it for only the special people in our lives?…no seriously…I don’t get it….its so much easier being our self….then why not do that?….why go around being someone or something we hate…or maybe its some kind of punishment….punishing our self for something we’ve done earlier…and lost that precious thing in our life…or maybe punishing our self for circumstances that weren’t even within our control……..
hmmm..totally agreee..we are essentially born to live in a “society”..so pleasing the society is always on the back of our minds and we cant really speak our minds and be ourselves ALL the time..and i guess in time, we become What the society has made out of us…sniff..me gettin all sento..cant write..chokeeeeeee
see? i Am the only one to comment..u shud b grateful [;)]..like I AM..thankzzz orkiee..fr being so regular in readin my blogg..sniff sniff.f…
And then the void is here too
Okay I kinda disagree with coupla statements in the blog..
1) humans are born hypocrites – You dont seem to have met the right kind yet
2) its so much easier being our self – Beg to differ!.. As charu said.. being born to ‘live in a society’ we are so conscious of so many people watching us.. its so difficult not to try and please them.. Is it good or bad is a different debate altogether!
Anyways a damn cool blog
keep goin.